In February 2025, my sister and I set out on a journey across
some of India’s most revered spiritual destinations: Varanasi, Gaya, Prayagraj,
and Ayodhya. This wasn’t just a pilgrimage—it was a solemn and heartfelt
tribute to our beloved brother Partha, who passed away in February 2024. The goal: to
complete his first death anniversary rituals, and to find peace in the
sacredness of India’s cultural and spiritual heritage. Though the pain of loss
still lingered, this journey became a path toward peace, closure, and spiritual
connection.
We began our journey with an Indigo flight from Chennai to
Varanasi. As we landed in the holy city, I felt a calm silence settle in, as
though Varanasi had already begun its healing.
Varanasi: A Ritual of Remembrance
Arriving in Varanasi, we were enveloped once again by the rhythm of the Ganges and the chants that drift endlessly from its ghats. The city felt timeless, offering both a stage for sacred ritual and a silent companion for grief. Walking through the ghats, I was reminded of life’s transience and the peace that can be found in letting go.The river carried more than just the ritual offerings—it carried our love, our sorrow, and perhaps, our brother’s soul toward liberation.
Prayagraj: The Confluence of Faith
From Varanasi, we traveled to Prayagraj, where the sacred
Triveni Sangam—the meeting point of the Ganga, Yamuna, and the mythical
Saraswati—invites millions seeking purification. This year is the Maha Kumbh
Mela which comes every 144 years. We felt blessed to be in India during this time of the year. The regular Kumbh Mela is calculated with the
Sun’s movement, and it occurs every 12 years. We went to the confluence and
offered prayers, letting the sacred waters wash over us in a symbolic act of
release and renewal.
It was here, amid the vast waters and open skies, that I
felt the enormity of life and death converge—like the rivers themselves—into
something both sacred and eternal.
Gaya: Peace for the Departed
Next, we made our way to Gaya, where we continued the death
anniversary rituals. The ancient Vishnupad Temple, built around the footprint
of Lord Vishnu, stood in solemn grace as we prayed for our brother’s peace and
journey forward. Prayed for our parents, our ancestors, relatives, and all the known and unknown departed
souls.
Ayodhya: Hope in Devotion
Our final destination was Ayodhya, the birthplace of Lord
Rama. The city was radiant with devotion and pride, especially with the newly
consecrated Sri Rama Temple standing tall as a beacon of faith and national
sentiment.
We joined thousands of devotees in offering our prayers,
marveling at the temple’s architecture, but more so at the emotional weight it
carried—for generations had longed to see this moment. Being part of that
collective devotion was humbling and healing.
In Ayodhya, amidst the chants of “Jai Shri Ram,” there was a
sense of surrender—of letting go, of placing our grief in divine hands.
A Journey of Closure and Continuity
This was a journey of spiritual closure, of rituals,
remembrance, and inner stillness. Through the sacred cities of Varanasi,
Prayagraj, Gaya, and Ayodhya, we honored our brother and allowed our grief to
find its sacred space. By doing so, it reminded us that even in loss, there is
love, memory, and the enduring presence of spirit.
Thanks.
ReplyDeleteDear Sobana
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your write ups with me. They are informative and such interesting reads! When I saw your piece on Bodhgaya and Nalanda travel, I thought how close you had come to my place.
Warmly
Bijoy
Thanks Bijoy. Next trip to India - I will definitely visit Patna. Looking forward to seeing you and the ancient city.
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